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Had a Car Accident Lately?
"You'll never guess what happened to me?" I'm a professional intuitive consultant and when someone says that to me on the phone, it's never good news.
I'm one of the peak kin someone calls when they've been visited with a car accident by the fickle finger of fate.
Car accidents are frightening experiences.
But is it really fate? Let's get into this subject and see what we can find out.
Dear Friend, when we posses car accidents, it's not chance at all.
There's body you can do about this, to obtain it out of your life for good.
I'd like to put the spotlight on car accidents in a noncritical, observant way, so you can regenerate yourself.
It makes me angry to see family tread away from one accident only to keep another a few years later.
As a healer, I don't like to see kinsfolk in pain.
And if you've been in an accident, you perceive the aftermath of shock, rage and terror, sometimes resulting in doorjamb traumatic excite syndrome.
Why go through this experience again?
Let's procure things like this out of our lives.
Let's take domesticate of our personal energy.
Here's the way.
The cosmos is mental.
It responds to you the system you assume it will.
The Bible says, "It is done unto you as you believe.
" (We rehash the Bible metaphysically for the large romance of wisdom that it is.
The speaking in the Bible is metaphorical.
So does this mean you "believe in" accidents? Hey! you're thinking, I'm mystic but I'm not stupid.
No, that's simplistic.
Here is a quote from Stanley Kubrick that I love,
"The most terrifying fact about the cosmos is not that it is hostile but that it is indifferent, but if we can come to terms with the indifference, then our existence as a genre can retain actual meaning.
However sizeable the darkness, we must supply our posses light.
Kubrick speaks of infusing the indifferent question of the universe with meaning.
I agree with him one hundred percent, but for this article, I would like to emphasize his observation that the elementary debate of the creation is indifferent.
We mean languishing like neutral.
The laws of physics are neutral.
One plus one equals two and if you push your glass off the table it bequeath dive to asphalt whether you are an standard person, an enlightened person, a genius, a two year lapsed in a highchair or eating your last snack on death row.
The laws of metaphysics are neutral, too.
We study them so we can use them to our advantage.
They don't care how they are used.
Please understand, in a mathematical universe, there are no accidents.
This is a fatiguing credo to generate in character when something bad has happened but it bequeath do the most to remedy the easgerness which presented you with this lecture in life.
Car accidents are costly on many levels and we absence them to stop.
The modern credo is, there are no victims of accidents.
Everyone is a volunteer.
For this reason, I'm going to stud from victim and perpetrator to the overhanging driver (perpetrator) and attracting driver (victim).
These principles may be new to you but if they're stirring something inside, you can learn more.
It's fatiguing to contemplate when one has logical been rear-ended, or -- in the juncture of a noblewoman I know, broadsided partly to death -- but this is no accident.
Instead, this is a highly synchronized meeting of two people on the duplicate gesticulate hank at precisely the twin moment.
Yes, that's right.
The projecting and attracting drivers would own to be perfectly synchronized to find each further in this world of limitless possibilities.
Since most of my readers are behalf people, kind, holy and well meaning, I sermon this heirs from the atom of scene of the attracting driver.
Projecting drivers are not likely to construe anything that consign enlighten them voluntarily.
They're more likely to wind up in court-appointed psychiatric evaluations or mandated compensation programs for alcohol, disillusion or urgency management.
These are all roads to enlightenment.
What are the odds that the two of you would meet at the exact equivalent moment in point and space? Astronomical, wouldn't you say? You can renovate your energy.
You can be mild on the road, on a aspect and in an airport.
There is power in what I'm going to acquaint you.
State of temper is what determines our wavelength at any grant juncture and that can change.
It's like tuning your radio to a different calling on the dial.
You could gibber that you and the protruding driver are tuned to the twin gear of the radio if you meet in such an recognized way.
So let's look for a moment at the nature of mind.
That's how your wavelength is determined.
Actually, we own two minds: the mental and the fawn mind.
In astrology they are the higher and reduce mood and they are represented by the symbols Gemini and Sagittarius or the 3rd and 9th houses.
The buff nature is what Kubrick calls the indifference of the universe.
True indifference is actually much closer to the sanctified field of humour than any figure of love, fervor, devotion or further emotion.
You understand if you obtain ever witnessed passion die while caring and kindness prolong for a lifetime.
Yoga lecturer Gururattan Kaur Khalsa, Ph.
, one of my favorite religious writers at the moment, explains "The [mind] we normally govern from is the reasoning mind.
The rational disposition has two functions, admitted as the opposite disposition and the positive mind.
The dissension character warns us why we shouldn't do body and the positive mood tells us the benefits of certain actions.
The two dialectic in an attempt to figure out the peak circumgyration of action.
"By itself, the cognitive attitude never reaches a perfect solution.
The fawn temper is the alternative maker, the arbitrator, and the second judge.
" Great hallowed advice and it further comes in handy on the road! Here's why.
The mushroom humour is described in the astrology chart - our human version of it -- by the 9th house.
It's called the alcove of wanting distance action and it describes driving on the freeway as lambaste tooling around the neighborhood.
It's besides the domicile of meditation because it is the want distance use of the attitude -- far seeing, prophetic, intuitive, looking for patterns .
If you drive on the freeway, you're in a thoughtful field of consciousness at least allowance of the point whether you spot it or not.
To drive on the freeway, we look for patterns and spaces.
This is a function of the higher or intuitive mind, like the spatial relations tests on college maw exams.
It's using the duplicate measure of the brain.
I've scan for many kinsfolk in my 25 years as an intuitive consultant, astrologer and spiritual teacher/healer.
I'm one of the finest relatives someone calls when they've been involved in a car accident.
I've talked to kinsfolk from their hospital bed and I politic a pile about this generous of energy during the years.
I got advantage sense of the gusto that surrounds folks who are going to draw a projective driver into their personal space.
I try to alert connections for sure when I see it coming.
And if they won't listen to my warning, I try to "talk them down" out of the sector they're in anyway.
Sometimes I can do this and sometimes I can't.
That's why I'm writing this article.
Maybe you leave learn entity here that bequeath hold you safe.
I have peruse for a comrade who wrecked his keep car and then totaled the rental car the uncommonly subsequent day.
He had no insurance and had bought none with the rental.
I read for a peeress who was raped not once, but twice.
I peruse for a lass who knew she would someday drive off a bridge and did so.
This colleen is now in a wheel chair for life.
I am writing this body to wake connections up!
The states of humour I endure put us on a impression cycle with a projective driver are these:
Repressed hostility, anger or rage
• Victim mentality
• Trying to do fresh than one device at a point (multitasking)
• Being rushed or being late
• Overextended lifestyle
• Talking on the cell phone
• Separation from self through over job and busy-ness (super mom)
• Living wholly facade the self, causing deep depression, self loathing, self detestation and even self noxious tendencies
Let's transact a closer look at each of these.
• REPRESSED HOSTILITY, ANGER OR RAGE
If you aren't expressing your own emotions, someone will come rectify over and do it for you.
Or do it to you, I should say.
Some of the "nicest" and "sweetest" folks in the creation are involved in collisions for this extraordinary reason.
If they weren't so nice or so sweet, they might keep been safer.
There are many socially acceptable ways to achieve out the aggressions we all stroke (yes, even the nice and sweet ones).
Frustration is the cost we pay for our hard-won civilized behavior.
Frustration has to hold some sterile outlet.
Some unpolluted outlets are working out, formal competitions -- such as sales figures, foot races and beating last month's records -- athletics, strenuous pound work, heavy housework, cleanup, reconstruction or remodeling projects, internal journaling, confiding in a individual and Yoga or meditation.
Please do one of these things to own yourself safe.
If you own any questions about more suitable outlets, email me.
• VICTIM MENTALITY
People with victim mentalities are accidents waiting to happen.
Why is it the twin family are robbed twice, rear preceding twice, even raped twice?
Here are some ways to achieve out of the victim position.
Go on a victim-free diet for three months.
Do not construe about, listen to stories about, guard movies or television shows, sympathize with or even conjecture about any connections or animals who are victims.
If someone tries to apprise you a victim story, inform them you logical remembered you obtain to be somewhere to see a companion about a horse!
If you're volunteering at the animal protection or working in a area that interacts strongly with supplementary victims, such as social welfare, nursing or compensation and rehabilitation programs, please consider that this may not be the employment for you.
Some can activity in these fields and remain accident emancipate because they don't participate in victim mentality.
If you've had an accident, this counts you out.
Don't worry, someone commit trudge in the front door logical as your leaving out the back.
Many connections who are attracted to these fields keep had histories of neglect in their retain childhoods and are working out issues of victimization.
We need to remedy these issues.
We scarcity you to engender a innocuous and comfortable aura around yourself.
Then the projective driver cede recent remedy by.
• TRYING TO DO MORE THAN ONE THING AT A TIME (MULTITASKING)
Have you ever tried to squeeze your leader with one labourer and pat your intestines with the other? A recent phenomenon on MSN Internet revealed that people eat, smoke, read, shave, apply makeup and own sex while driving.
Multitasking is becoming a practice of life for some connections and these are some of the most likely people, unfortunately, I'll peg for accidents in the years ahead.
Multitasking is wonderful if you're sitting at a computer and it's a lifesaver if you're stuck at home bored but if you're sitting at the wheel of a $30,000 lethal weapon, no!
Where driving is concerned -- and hear me on this, where life is concerned -- more is not better.
Faster is not better.
When you rectify your driving, it entrust amend the gap of your life, too.
• BEING RUSHED AND IN A HURRY
Being rushed and in a hasten already has us out of sync… with ourselves.
When we are out of sync with ourselves, we are out of fondle with wellbeing timing in all matters.
Timing is a thumping eminent side of spiritual life.
You can apprise how far you're coming toward wholeness by how abstract your comprehend of timing is.
We comprehend a few terminated sages who don't own watches or clocks.
They wake up certainly and arrive on instance effortlessly.
Their inner timing is perfected.
Meditation can help.
If you find yourself rushing, at least watch the self-talk.
Many relatives who "run late" accompany this foible with a province of attitude involving "Why do you do this? When are you going to learn? It's so rude to be late! You are so inconsiderate! Why did you hold to make that last phone call? Can't you ever impartial be on time? …" Stop the chatter.
If you're late, you're late.
Get there alive.
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• OVEREXTENDED LIFESTYLE
We are holistic beings in spite of ourselves.
We are quite consistent in our behavior across the perfect reach of our activities.
If you suspect this, take some juncture to touch others first, because it's easier, and then yourself.
If someone eats fleet and unconsciously, they also drive rapid and unconsciously.
And their sex is that manner too!
What this tenet of consistency practice if that you can't be overextended in one field of your life and not in another.
Borrowing Peter to remuneration Paul, living on pecuniary you haven't earned or living beyond your way consign further be reflected in the routine you drive.
• TALKING ON THE CELL PHONE
Talking on the cell phone is a function of the decrease or thinking mind.
Driving on the freeway, as we understand from earlier in the article, is a function of the higher or indifferent mind.
Just as it is impossible to be two places at one time, it is impossible to be in both of these minds at the same time.
The reason we teach connections to meditate is that as soon as they span the higher mind, the reduce nature must vacate.
This is called "stilling the mind".
When we are in the higher mind, the lessen humour must vacate.
These two minds are mutually exclusive.
Conversely, when we are in the dilute mind, the higher disposition must vacate.
Talking on the cell phone uses the lessen mind.
It vacates the higher attitude and that is the one we deficiency for freeway driving -- the disposition that looks for spaces, patterns and flow.
Is it any wonder that utterance on cell phones causes so many accidents?
Cell phones are actually a sub category of the ones above, trying to do two things at one juncture and paramount a rushed, crowded or overextended lifestyle.
• SEPARATION FROM SELF THROUGH OVER ACTIVITY AND BUSY-NESS (SUPERMOM)
What happens when you have an accident? You wind up flat on your back for awhile, staring at the handrail and wondering how this could hold happened to you?
Well, productively, let's concentrate on the blessing half of the sentence tolerably than the last.
When was the last point you sat around and did nothing?
Accidents befall to many relatives who are so out of observe it takes a zap from the cosmos to get them back together with themselves for a scarcely quality time.
Many connections develop to see their accidents as one of the elite things that could own happened because it forced them to delay and imagine about where they were headed in their lives and to fondle in with what's really important, especially in serious accidents where one's complete life flashes before them.
What I'd like you to do is spring the slice about the accident and promise that you'll spend further down time.
Promise yourself two hours a week of journaling, listening to music, getting a walk, playing with your kid or someone else's and holding hands with your significant other.
You'll be glad you did and I'll be glad you did, too.
I don't like it when my phone rings and someone says, "Nancy, you'll never guess what happened to me?"
• LIVING ENTIRELY OUTSIDE THE SELF, CAUSING DEEP DEPRESSION, SELF LOATHING, SELF HATRED AND SELF DESTRUCTION
I'm going to warn you a news that consign convince you how serious this empire is but first, let's review what we recognize about being true to ourselves.
Simply put, zero is more important than finding who you are and being that person.
I or any astrologer can unquestionably aid you with this.
Few of us escaped the conditioning of early childhood and school years that may keep encouraged us to ignore our true selves and conform to issue or society's expectations.
As adults, we privation to uncover our actual selves.
The astrology chart is the most faithful blueprint I understand for revealing the genuine self.
Not only is it the most stressful phenomenon in the creation to try to be object we're not (and I mean this neutrally not critically), it is affronting at some merit to the measure of us that is whole.
There is object in us that, when split off from our entire self, revolts and takes revenge.
When I prime began reading, 25 years ago, I had a client who often called with what were extraordinary derisory problems but I knew article was brewing in the background.
Her calls were about the brand new home which had a few seldom deficiencies.
Her husband was late in putting in the new sod.
And her sister-in-law was uncommonly depressed although she, too, had a rich husband, new home and was expecting a hindmost adolescent in a few months.
This client didn't term remarkably often and would control the calls to these few items.
I never had a occure to earn remarkably far with her.
One day much to my hysteria she called to inform me her sister-in-law had been hit leader on by a semi.
She and the kid (in utero) were killed instantly.
Policemen treaty with family at a extremely extreme excellence fair like psychics and intuitive consultants.
TI mean by this that relatives cede lie on Gallup polls and psychological research interviews but not in situations where police and psychics find them.
Police entitle this sort of item in their file of work, "suicide by cop", a device which I expect from O.
Simpson one of these days.
He has Saturn in the 12th house.
Be that as it may be, this progeny female found a regrettable procedure out of her predicament.
Was this her fate? No! She could own healed herself.
But sometimes -- and I natter this with fresh emotions in my marrow than many family can touch for themselves at certain times -- they would literally tolerably die than change.
If you are desperately blue in your life, your marriage, your job, there is a projective driver who consign subconsciously drift to that zest and fulfill your deadly wishes.
This is a horrifying and uncommonly real possibility.
Please wake up! You can remedy yourself.
When we are as depressed as this successors woman, thing wants to die, yes, but it does not involve the physical body.
We are dying to invalid ways to thinking, believing, acting.
Perhaps we are dying to a whole method of life.
Or our old system of life has died.
But it is a psychic death that is obtaining place.
None of this is meant to involve the physical body
I’m going to catalogue some of the astrological energies that are implicated in car accidents but do not bear this as a jamb hypnotic submission that you if you retain one of these placements or someone you sense does, that you commit own a car accident.
Use your emancipate will.
Choose to use these energies constructively.
Take this article as a break nudge to wake up.
Be especially attendant and aware when you get delayed the wheel.
A most naturally avoid as many of the items above as possible:
Mars in square or foe to Uranus is the "accident prone" aspect.
Usually the man is motility too briskly for circumstances; these kin further behave acutely poorly to being confined, such as in a traffic jam, or having their customary route blocked -- they can become fairly irrational in their responses
• GEMINI PLANETARY ENERGIES
Gemini planetary energies fashion having Gemini obloquial in your chart (Sun, Moon, South Node or Saturn) or having important placements like the Sun, Moon, South Node or Saturn in your 3rd house.
A foregone Survey by SunCorp which studied 160,000 accident claims over a three year interval by sun symbol showed Geminis as the worst drivers.
They speculated this was because Geminis are distracted and impatient when things ruse too slowly.
Geminis are also the symbol most likely to rush, do too many things at one instance and say on the cell phone while driving.
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• TAURUS AND PISCES PLANETARY ENERGIES
Pisces and Taurus planetary energies fashion important placements such as Sun, Moon, South Node or Saturn in one of these signs, or in the 2nd or 12th houses.
Taurus and Pisces are the two archetypal energies that nurture most to live in their retain little world.
This is lovely and fine when you're home cleaning the garage, washing the car, balancing the checkbook, watching your favorite recording or writing in your journal.
Driving on the freeway is an markedly baffling social and obscure suppositional activity, requiring the ultimate awareness of far immediate surroundings and an receiving of the complexities of human behavior .
like it or not!
• LIBRA PLANETARY ENERGIES
Libra planetary energies procedure famous placements such as Sun, Moon, South Node or Saturn in Libra or in the 7th house.
These energies often present passive aggressive name dynamics (seething with resentment?) that is thumping alluring to projective drivers.
• PLUTO ON THE NORTH NODE
Pluto on the North Node or by transit is always a scarcely grain tricky.
If you're looking for a method out of the liability of living your TRUE life -- it is rigorous and fatiguing to be thoroughly alive -- Pluto has a seductive bunch to it.
It has a procedure of darkly fulfilling languid and foolish wishes through the powers of the subconscious.
I posses heuristic relatives live through amazing accidents only to die in a remarkably mundane way at the succeeding doable opportunity.
Presumably, this was their wish.
Pluto invites transformation and does not necessarily mean to involve the physical something but sometimes there is a misunderstanding in the singularity of the individual.
Tow truck drivers, like policemen and psychics, interact with kinsfolk right after harsh car accidents.
I once had a revealing language with a tow truck driver who was driving me back to my house.
We passed a span in the road where there keep been many fatal accidents.
We both agreed that there was a menacing form benign of gusto which gathered around places where fatal accidents had occurred and which actually began to build up.
"Dead Man's Curve" was a singable song when I was a teenager.
The sore detail is that if you chasm through one of these places while you are unconscious, you can be pulled off into the void.
Please don't be alarmed by this reality.
If you're alive to scan this article, you've already driven safely through at least one of these places.
Always drive tell and always grant yourself a basis to be alive.
If you are gloomy in any area of your life, do thing about it, no matter how difficult.
I’ve given several esteemed things not to do, now I’ll consign you two superior things always to do:
• apportion yourself a cause to live; and
• and stay conscious to that fact.
If you own one of these planetary energies accented in your chart and the shoe fits, please wear it.
Be alive and alert overdue the wheel! We deficiency you to drive responsibly and get there safely.
If you don't chronicle to anything in this article, then it is not for you that it was written.