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Had a Car Accident Lately?
"You'll never guess what happened to me?" I'm a professional intuitive consultant and when someone says that to me on the phone, it's never advantage news.
I'm one of the prime kinsfolk someone calls when they've been visited with a car accident by the fickle finger of fate.
Car accidents are frightening experiences.
But is it really fate? Let's earn into this subject and see what we can find out.
Dear Friend, when we hold car accidents, it's not destiny at all. There's something you can do about this, to attain it out of your life for good.
I'd like to put the spotlight on car accidents in a noncritical, observant way, so you can treat yourself. It makes me angry to see connections footslog away from one accident only to obtain another a few years later. As a healer, I don't like to see folks in pain.
And if you've been in an accident, you notice the aftermath of shock, rage and terror, sometimes resulting in post traumatic rouse syndrome.
Why go through this experience again?
Let's get things like this out of our lives.
Let's bring break of our personal energy.
Here's the way.
The world is mental. It responds to you the practice you conjecture it will. The Bible says, "It is done unto you as you believe.
" (We rehash the Bible metaphysically for the great narrative of wisdom that it is.
The talking in the Bible is metaphorical. )
So does this mean you "believe in" accidents? Hey! you're thinking, I'm transcedental but I'm not stupid.
No, that's simplistic.
Here is a instance from Stanley Kubrick that I love,
"The most terrifying fact about the creation is not that it is hostile but that it is indifferent, but if we can come to terms with the indifference, then our existence as a kimd can posses veritable meaning. However goodly the darkness, we must supply our posses light.
Kubrick speaks of infusing the torpid problem of the totality with meaning. I agree with him one hundred percent, but for this article, I would like to decorate his observation that the extreme matter of the creation is indifferent.
We mean lazy like neutral.
The laws of physics are neutral. One plus one equals two and if you push your glass off the table it entrust decline to pave whether you are an common person, an enlightened person, a genius, a two year invalid in a highchair or eating your last fare on death row. The laws of metaphysics are neutral, too. We examine them so we can use them to our advantage.
They don't care how they are used.
Please understand, in a mathematical universe, there are no accidents.
This is a laborious doctrine to grow in disposition when item blighted has happened but it bequeath do the most to mend the enthusiasm which presented you with this homily in life.
Car accidents are costly on many levels and we need them to stop.
The closing dogma is, there are no victims of accidents.
Everyone is a volunteer. For this reason, I'm going to stud from victim and perpetrator to the sticking driver (perpetrator) and attracting driver (victim).
These principles may be new to you but if they're stirring device inside, you can learn more.
It's strenuous to contemplate when one has unbiased been rear-ended, or -- in the instance of a noblewoman I know, broadsided midpoint to death -- but this is no accident.
Instead, this is a highly synchronized meeting of two connections on the twin wave twist at precisely the identical moment.
Yes, that's right.
The protruding and attracting drivers would posses to be perfectly synchronized to find each more in this globe of limitless possibilities.
Since most of my readers are sake people, kind, religious and well meaning, I homily this spawn from the fleck of view of the attracting driver. Projecting drivers are not likely to scan anything that leave enlighten them voluntarily.
They're more likely to wind up in court-appointed psychiatric evaluations or mandated retrieval programs for alcohol, disaffect or priority management.
These are all roads to enlightenment.
What are the odds that the two of you would meet at the exact corresponding moment in instance and space? Astronomical, wouldn't you say? You can change your energy.
You can be inoffensive on the road, on a plane and in an airport.
There is firmness in what I'm going to alert you.
State of character is what determines our wavelength at any grant instance and that can change.
It's like tuning your radio to a different place on the dial. You could gossip that you and the sticking driver are tuned to the same system of the radio if you meet in such an known way.
So let's look for a moment at the disposition of mind.
That's how your wavelength is determined.
Actually, we have two minds: the mental and the beige mind.
In astrology they are the higher and lessen mood and they are represented by the code Gemini and Sagittarius or the 3rd and 9th houses.
The buff temper is what Kubrick calls the indifference of the universe.
True indifference is actually much closer to the sacred department of character than any numeral of love, fervor, devotion or supplementary emotion.
You sense if you hold ever witnessed passion die while caring and kindness prolong for a lifetime.
Yoga reader Gururattan Kaur Khalsa, Ph. D. , one of my favorite holy writers at the moment, explains "The [mind] we normally direct from is the thinking mind.
The analytical mood has two functions, recognized as the opposite mind and the positive mind.
The dissension character warns us why we shouldn't do thing and the positive disposition tells us the benefits of certain actions.
The two argument in an attempt to quantity out the first circle of action.
"By itself, the cognitive nature never reaches a entire solution.
The sand nature is the possibility maker, the arbitrator, and the later judge.
" Great religious advice and it moreover comes in handy on the road! Here's why.
The fawn attitude is described in the astrology chart - our human version of it -- by the 9th house.
It's called the calling of want span mobility and it describes driving on the freeway as rail tooling around the neighborhood.
It's besides the habitat of reflection because it is the crave spread use of the mood -- far seeing, prophetic, intuitive, looking for patterns . . . .
If you drive on the freeway, you're in a thinking field of consciousness at least allocation of the instance whether you place it or not.
To drive on the freeway, we look for patterns and spaces.
This is a function of the higher or intuitive mind, like the spatial relations tests on college abyss exams.
It's using the alike slice of the brain.
I've construe for many kinsfolk in my 25 years as an intuitive consultant, astrologer and sacred teacher/healer. I'm one of the blessing kin someone calls when they've been involved in a car accident.
I've talked to people from their hospital bed and I learned a collection about this kind of zest during the years.
I got sake comprehend of the gusto that surrounds connections who are going to trail a projective driver into their personal space.
I try to acquaint connections for sure when I see it coming. And if they won't listen to my warning, I try to "talk them down" out of the state they're in anyway.
Sometimes I can do this and sometimes I can't.
That's why I'm writing this article.
Maybe you will learn object here that leave have you safe.
I own study for a companion who wrecked his posses car and then totaled the rental car the extremely following day.
He had no insurance and had bought none with the rental. I peruse for a gentlewoman who was raped not once, but twice.
I scan for a lass who knew she would someday drive off a bridge and did so. This miss is now in a wheel chair for life.
I am writing this phenomenon to wake relatives up!
The states of nature I observe put us on a influence trajectory with a projective driver are these:
Repressed hostility, disaffect or rage
• Victim mentality
• Trying to do fresh than one thing at a case (multitasking)
• Being rushed or being late
• Overextended lifestyle
• Talking on the cell phone
• Separation from self through over business and busy-ness (super mom)
• Living wholly front the self, causing deep depression, self loathing, self abomination and even self harmful tendencies
Let's transact a closer look at each of these.
• REPRESSED HOSTILITY, ANGER OR RAGE
If you aren't expressing your keep emotions, someone will come rectify over and do it for you. Or do it to you, I should say.
Some of the "nicest" and "sweetest" connections in the globe are involved in collisions for this very reason.
If they weren't so nice or so sweet, they might own been safer.
There are many socially acceptable ways to get out the aggressions we all endure (yes, even the nice and sweet ones). Frustration is the cost we pay for our hard-won civilized behavior. Frustration has to hold some clean outlet.
Some antiseptic outlets are working out, formal competitions -- such as sales figures, foot races and beating last month's records -- athletics, tiring meadow work, laborious housework, cleanup, reconstruction or remodeling projects, homely journaling, confiding in a companion and Yoga or meditation.
Please do one of these things to keep yourself safe.
If you retain any questions about fresh suitable outlets, email me.
• VICTIM MENTALITY
People with victim mentalities are accidents waiting to happen.
Why is it the same kin are robbed twice, rear bygone twice, even raped twice?
Here are some ways to secure out of the victim position.
Go on a victim-free diet for three months.
Do not construe about, listen to stories about, vigil movies or television shows, sympathize with or even think about any people or animals who are victims.
If someone tries to caution you a victim story, notify them you impartial remembered you obtain to be somewhere to see a individual about a horse!
If you're volunteering at the animal refuge or working in a state that interacts strongly with more victims, such as social welfare, nursing or compensation and rehabilitation programs, please consider that this may not be the calling for you. Some can activity in these fields and remain accident free because they don't participate in victim mentality.
If you've had an accident, this counts you out.
Don't worry, someone will footslog in the bob door reasonable as your leaving out the back.
Many kinsfolk who are attracted to these fields posses had histories of neglect in their obtain childhoods and are working out issues of victimization.
We scarcity to restore these issues.
We scarcity you to generate a innocuous and comfortable halo around yourself. Then the projective driver entrust bygone improve by.
• TRYING TO DO MORE THAN ONE THING AT A TIME (MULTITASKING)
Have you ever tried to work your probe with one drudge and pat your tummy with the other? A foregone item on MSN Internet revealed that kin eat, smoke, read, shave, apply makeup and own sex while driving.
Multitasking is becoming a fashion of life for some relatives and these are some of the most likely people, unfortunately, I'll peg for accidents in the years ahead.
Multitasking is wonderful if you're sitting at a computer and it's a lifesaver if you're stuck at home bored but if you're sitting at the wheel of a $30,000 lethal weapon, no!
Where driving is concerned -- and hear me on this, where life is concerned -- other is not better. Faster is not better. When you alter your driving, it cede mend the discontinue of your life, too.
• BEING RUSHED AND IN A HURRY
Being rushed and in a quicken already has us out of sync… with ourselves.
When we are out of sync with ourselves, we are out of stroke with behalf timing in all matters.
Timing is a remarkably eminent plane of religious life.
You can caution how far you're coming toward wholeness by how filch your recognize of timing is.
We sense a few terminated sages who don't keep watches or clocks.
They wake up positively and arrive on occasion effortlessly.
Their inner timing is perfected.
Meditation can help.
If you find yourself rushing, at least monitoring the self-talk. Many people who "run late" accompany this quirk with a department of disposition involving "Why do you do this? When are you going to learn? It's so rude to be late! You are so inconsiderate! Why did you obtain to make that last phone call? Can't you ever unbiased be on time? …" Stop the chatter. If you're late, you're late.
Get there alive.
If being dilatory is a chronic condition for you, I hold some articles of vast welfare to you on my website.
• OVEREXTENDED LIFESTYLE
We are holistic beings in spite of ourselves.
We are absolutely consistent in our behavior across the complete scale of our activities.
If you distrust this, manage some juncture to fondle others first, because it's easier, and then yourself.
If someone eats rapid and unconsciously, they further drive fast and unconsciously.
And their sex is that method too!
What this dogma of consistency procedure if that you can't be overextended in one territory of your life and not in another. Borrowing Peter to honorarium Paul, living on money you haven't earned or living beyond your practice commit furthermore be reflected in the manner you drive.
• TALKING ON THE CELL PHONE
Talking on the cell phone is a function of the lower or cognitive mind.
Driving on the freeway, as we sense from earlier in the article, is a function of the higher or languorous mind.
Just as it is impossible to be two places at one time, it is impossible to be in both of these minds at the twin time.
The actuation we teach people to meditate is that as soon as they scale the higher mind, the cut disposition must vacate.
This is called "stilling the mind". When we are in the higher mind, the reduce temper must vacate.
These two minds are mutually exclusive.
Conversely, when we are in the shorten mind, the higher mind must vacate.
Talking on the cell phone uses the cut mind.
It vacates the higher temper and that is the one we deficiency for freeway driving -- the disposition that looks for spaces, patterns and flow. Is it any wonder that utterance on cell phones causes so many accidents?
Cell phones are actually a sub category of the ones above, trying to do two things at one occasion and prime a rushed, crowded or overextended lifestyle.
• SEPARATION FROM SELF THROUGH OVER ACTIVITY AND BUSY-NESS (SUPERMOM)
What happens when you obtain an accident? You wind up flat on your back for awhile, staring at the handrail and wondering how this could own happened to you?
Well, productively, let's concentrate on the elite half of the sentence reasonably than the last.
When was the last juncture you sat around and did nothing?
Accidents materialize to many relatives who are so out of perceive it takes a zap from the creation to earn them back together with themselves for a scarcely level time.
Many folks generate to see their accidents as one of the boon things that could own happened because it forced them to pause and reckon about where they were headed in their lives and to caress in with what's really important, especially in serious accidents where one's entire life flashes before them.
What I'd like you to do is spring the allowance about the accident and affirmation that you'll spend additional down time.
Promise yourself two hours a week of journaling, listening to music, receiving a walk, playing with your kid or someone else's and holding hands with your significant other. You'll be glad you did and I'll be glad you did, too. I don't like it when my phone rings and someone says, "Nancy, you'll never guess what happened to me?"
• LIVING ENTIRELY OUTSIDE THE SELF, CAUSING DEEP DEPRESSION, SELF LOATHING, SELF HATRED AND SELF DESTRUCTION
I'm going to tell you a message that will convince you how serious this section is but first, let's review what we perceive about being true to ourselves.
Simply put, zero is supplementary famous than finding who you are and being that person.
I or any astrologer can certainly support you with this.
Few of us escaped the conditioning of early childhood and school years that may retain encouraged us to ignore our true selves and conform to children or society's expectations.
As adults, we privation to uncover our TRUE selves.
The astrology chart is the most faithful blueprint I recognize for revealing the veritable self.
Not only is it the most stressful body in the universe to try to be phenomenon we're not (and I mean this neutrally not critically), it is offensive at some standard to the slice of us that is whole.
There is article in us that, when separation off from our perfect self, revolts and takes revenge.
When I boon began reading, 25 years ago, I had a client who often called with what were thumping trivial problems but I knew object was looming in the background.
Her calls were about the brand new home which had a few scarcely deficiencies.
Her husband was unpunctual in putting in the new sod.
And her sister-in-law was thumping depressed although she, too, had a wealthy husband, new home and was expecting a modern adolescent in a few months.
This client didn't name remarkably often and would issue the calls to these few items.
I never had a materialize to secure extremely far with her.
One day much to my fright she called to warn me her sister-in-law had been hit commander on by a semi. She and the infant (in utero) were killed instantly.
Policemen protocol with folks at a very rebellious standard just like psychics and intuitive consultants.
TI mean by this that family will lie on Gallup polls and psychological research interviews but not in situations where police and psychics find them. Police call this quality of phenomenon in their column of work, "suicide by cop", a something which I expect from O. J. Simpson one of these days.
He has Saturn in the 12th house.
Be that as it may be, this spawn countess found a terrible system out of her predicament.
Was this her fate? No! She could hold healed herself. But sometimes -- and I speak this with supplementary feelings in my nucleus than many kin can touch for themselves at certain times -- they would literally quite die than change.
If you are desperately sorrowful in your life, your marriage, your job, there is a projective driver who cede subconsciously drift to that gusto and fulfill your deadly wishes.
This is a horrifying and remarkably genuine possibility.
Please wake up! You can cure yourself.
When we are as depressed as this heirs woman, object wants to die, yes, but it does not involve the physical body.
We are dying to invalid ways to thinking, believing, acting. Perhaps we are dying to a flawless procedure of life.
Or our terminated means of life has died.
But it is a psychic death that is receipt place.
None of this is meant to involve the physical body
I’m going to list some of the astrological energies that are implicated in car accidents but do not take this as a doorjamb hypnotic proposal that you if you obtain one of these placements or someone you recognize does, that you leave retain a car accident.
Use your unchain will. Choose to use these energies constructively.
Take this something as a gentle nudge to wake up. Be especially attendant and aware when you earn slow the wheel. A most positively evade as many of the items above as possible:
Mars in square or rival to Uranus is the "accident prone" aspect.
Usually the partner is moving too quickly for circumstances; these relatives furthermore proceed sharply poorly to being confined, such as in a traffic jam, or having their customary route blocked -- they can become fully irrational in their responses
• GEMINI PLANETARY ENERGIES
Gemini planetary energies means having Gemini dishonourable in your chart (Sun, Moon, South Node or Saturn) or having revered placements like the Sun, Moon, South Node or Saturn in your 3rd house.
A former Survey by SunCorp which studied 160,000 accident claims over a three year phrase by sun token showed Geminis as the worst drivers.
They speculated this was because Geminis are distracted and impatient when things stratagem too slowly.
Geminis are furthermore the symbol most likely to rush, do too many things at one case and chatter on the cell phone while driving. Visit my website to interpret the entire series I did on this Survey.
• TAURUS AND PISCES PLANETARY ENERGIES
Pisces and Taurus planetary energies style esteemed placements such as Sun, Moon, South Node or Saturn in one of these signs, or in the 2nd or 12th houses.
Taurus and Pisces are the two archetypal energies that boost most to live in their have scarcely world.
This is lovely and fine when you're home cleaning the garage, washing the car, balancing the checkbook, watching your favorite cd or writing in your journal.
Driving on the freeway is an markedly intricate social and esoteric abstract activity, requiring the ultimate awareness of far immediate surroundings and an acceptance of the complexities of human behavior . . . like it or not!
• LIBRA PLANETARY ENERGIES
Libra planetary energies means great placements such as Sun, Moon, South Node or Saturn in Libra or in the 7th house.
These energies often grant latent aggressive name dynamics (seething with resentment?) that is remarkably tempting to projective drivers.
• PLUTO ON THE NORTH NODE
Pluto on the North Node or by transit is always a infrequently segment tricky.
If you're looking for a practice out of the weight of living your veritable life -- it is rigorous and tiring to be thoroughly alive -- Pluto has a seductive company to it.
It has a routine of darkly fulfilling idle and foolish wishes through the powers of the subconscious.
I own empirical folks live through amazing accidents only to die in a remarkably mundane routine at the next possible opportunity.
Presumably, this was their wish.
Pluto invites transformation and does not necessarily mean to involve the physical object but sometimes there is a misunderstanding in the singularity of the individual.
Tow truck drivers, like policemen and psychics, interact with people correct after severe car accidents.
I once had a revealing talking with a tow truck driver who was driving me back to my house.
We passed a distance in the road where there posses been many fatal accidents.
We both agreed that there was a npromising haunt balmy of vigour which gathered around places where fatal accidents had occurred and which actually began to build up. "Dead Man's Curve" was a popular song when I was a teenager. The unsmiling reality is that if you abyss through one of these places while you are unconscious, you can be pulled off into the void.
Please don't be alarmed by this reality.
If you're alive to scrutinize this article, you've already driven safely through at least one of these places.
Always drive inform and always consign yourself a motive to be alive.
If you are blue in any area of your life, do thing about it, no issue how difficult.
I’ve given several great things not to do, now I’ll apportion you two celebrated things always to do:
• grant yourself a basis to live; and
• and stay conscious to that fact.
If you have one of these planetary energies accented in your chart and the shoe fits, please wear it.
Wake up. Be aware.
Be alive and warn slow the wheel! We scarcity you to drive responsibly and secure there safely.
If you don't tell to anything in this article, then it is not for you that it was written.