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Had a Car Accident Lately?
"You'll never guess what happened to me?" I'm a professional intuitive consultant and when someone says that to me on the phone, it's never sake news.
I'm one of the prime kin someone calls when they've been visited with a car accident by the fickle finger of fate.
Car accidents are frightening experiences.
But is it really fate? Let's gain into this theme and see what we can find out.
Dear Friend, when we own car accidents, it's not destiny at all.
There's phenomenon you can do about this, to get it out of your life for good.
I'd like to put the spotlight on car accidents in a noncritical, observant way, so you can regenerate yourself.
It makes me angry to see relatives hike away from one accident only to posses another a few years later.
As a healer, I don't like to see family in pain.
And if you've been in an accident, you recognize the aftermath of shock, rage and terror, sometimes resulting in doorpost traumatic excite syndrome.
Why go through this experience again?
Let's secure things like this out of our lives.
Let's manage break of our personal energy.
Here's the way.
The system is mental.
It responds to you the procedure you suppose it will.
The Bible says, "It is done unto you as you believe.
" (We paraphrase the Bible metaphysically for the substantial novel of wisdom that it is.
The speech in the Bible is metaphorical.
So does this mean you "believe in" accidents? Hey! you're thinking, I'm supernatural but I'm not stupid.
No, that's simplistic.
Here is a propose from Stanley Kubrick that I love,
"The most terrifying detail about the creation is not that it is hostile but that it is indifferent, but if we can come to terms with the indifference, then our existence as a genre can hold real meaning.
However sizeable the darkness, we must supply our obtain light.
Kubrick speaks of infusing the torpid question of the globe with meaning.
I agree with him one hundred percent, but for this article, I would like to instance his observation that the radical problem of the macrocosm is indifferent.
We mean idle like neutral.
The laws of physics are neutral.
One plus one equals two and if you push your glass off the table it will swoop to macadamize whether you are an normal person, an enlightened person, a genius, a two year invalid in a highchair or eating your last repast on death row.
The laws of metaphysics are neutral, too.
We scrutinize them so we can use them to our advantage.
They don't care how they are used.
Please understand, in a mathematical universe, there are no accidents.
This is a difficult credo to evolve in attitude when phenomenon mouldy has happened but it consign do the most to regenerate the easgerness which presented you with this sermon in life.
Car accidents are costly on many levels and we lack them to stop.
The hindmost principle is, there are no victims of accidents.
Everyone is a volunteer.
For this reason, I'm going to protuberance from victim and perpetrator to the sticking driver (perpetrator) and attracting driver (victim).
These principles may be new to you but if they're stirring thing inside, you can learn more.
It's strenuous to contemplate when one has just been rear-ended, or -- in the circumstance of a lady I know, broadsided partly to death -- but this is no accident.
Instead, this is a highly synchronized meeting of two kin on the twin indicate skein at precisely the identical moment.
Yes, that's right.
The beetling and attracting drivers would keep to be perfectly synchronized to find each further in this cosmos of limitless possibilities.
Since most of my readers are wellbeing people, kind, blessed and well meaning, I lesson this issue from the atom of view of the attracting driver.
Projecting drivers are not likely to peruse anything that will enlighten them voluntarily.
They're additional likely to wind up in court-appointed psychiatric evaluations or mandated atonement programs for alcohol, anger or accent management.
These are all roads to enlightenment.
What are the odds that the two of you would meet at the exact duplicate moment in occasion and space? Astronomical, wouldn't you say? You can renovate your energy.
You can be innoxious on the road, on a plane and in an airport.
There is tenacity in what I'm going to acquaint you.
State of temper is what determines our wavelength at any bestow case and that can change.
It's like tuning your radio to a different vocation on the dial.
You could prattle that you and the beetling driver are tuned to the equivalent equipment of the radio if you meet in such an intimate way.
So let's look for a moment at the mind of mind.
That's how your wavelength is determined.
Actually, we retain two minds: the cognitive and the neutral mind.
In astrology they are the higher and decrease temperament and they are represented by the cipher Gemini and Sagittarius or the 3rd and 9th houses.
The sand mind is what Kubrick calls the indifference of the universe.
True indifference is actually much closer to the hallowed territory of temperament than any number of love, fervor, devotion or supplementary emotion.
You comprehend if you hold ever witnessed love die while caring and kindness keep for a lifetime.
Yoga orator Gururattan Kaur Khalsa, Ph.
, one of my favorite blessed writers at the moment, explains "The [mind] we normally manage from is the cognitive mind.
The cerebral mood has two functions, admitted as the denial humour and the positive mind.
The contradiction nature warns us why we shouldn't do body and the positive mind tells us the benefits of certain actions.
The two contention in an attempt to number out the prime orbit of action.
"By itself, the reasoning mood never reaches a whole solution.
The fawn disposition is the possibility maker, the arbitrator, and the closing judge.
" Great spiritual advice and it moreover comes in handy on the road! Here's why.
The beige disposition is described in the astrology chart - our human version of it -- by the 9th house.
It's called the calling of crave stretch movement and it describes driving on the freeway as censure tooling around the neighborhood.
It's moreover the dwelling of reflection because it is the long spread use of the temperament -- far seeing, prophetic, intuitive, looking for patterns .
If you drive on the freeway, you're in a musing area of consciousness at least share of the occasion whether you realize it or not.
To drive on the freeway, we look for patterns and spaces.
This is a function of the higher or intuitive mind, like the spatial relations tests on college abyss exams.
It's using the identical slice of the brain.
I've interpret for many folks in my 25 years as an intuitive consultant, astrologer and hallowed teacher/healer.
I'm one of the boon family someone calls when they've been involved in a car accident.
I've talked to kin from their hospital bed and I politic a mass about this friendly of zest during the years.
I got behalf know of the liveliness that surrounds kin who are going to haul a projective driver into their personal space.
I try to apprise people for sure when I see it coming.
And if they won't listen to my warning, I try to "talk them down" out of the domain they're in anyway.
Sometimes I can do this and sometimes I can't.
That's why I'm writing this article.
Maybe you commit learn item here that entrust retain you safe.
I own construe for a fellow who wrecked his own car and then totaled the rental car the extremely later day.
He had no insurance and had bought none with the rental.
I peruse for a lady who was raped not once, but twice.
I peruse for a miss who knew she would someday drive off a bridge and did so.
This girl is now in a wheel chair for life.
I am writing this thing to wake kinsfolk up!
The states of disposition I fondle put us on a collision circle with a projective driver are these:
Repressed hostility, disillusion or rage
• Victim mentality
• Trying to do fresh than one article at a instance (multitasking)
• Being rushed or being late
• Overextended lifestyle
• Talking on the cell phone
• Separation from self through over afafir and busy-ness (super mom)
• Living absolutely guise the self, causing deep depression, self loathing, self detestation and even self nocuous tendencies
Let's bring a closer look at each of these.
• REPRESSED HOSTILITY, ANGER OR RAGE
If you aren't expressing your own emotions, someone entrust come fix over and do it for you.
Or do it to you, I should say.
Some of the "nicest" and "sweetest" kin in the system are involved in collisions for this uncommonly reason.
If they weren't so nice or so sweet, they might have been safer.
There are many socially acceptable ways to procure out the aggressions we all feel (yes, even the nice and sweet ones).
Frustration is the cost we stipend for our hard-won civilized behavior.
Frustration has to retain some sanitary outlet.
Some sanitary outlets are working out, formal competitions -- such as sales figures, foot races and beating last month's records -- athletics, arduous corral work, laborious housework, cleanup, reconstruction or remodeling projects, private journaling, confiding in a individual and Yoga or meditation.
Please do one of these things to own yourself safe.
If you keep any questions about more suitable outlets, email me.
• VICTIM MENTALITY
People with victim mentalities are accidents waiting to happen.
Why is it the equivalent kin are robbed twice, rear foregone twice, even raped twice?
Here are some ways to get out of the victim position.
Go on a victim-free diet for three months.
Do not construe about, listen to stories about, vigil movies or television shows, sympathize with or even surmise about any relatives or animals who are victims.
If someone tries to notify you a victim story, apprise them you moderate remembered you have to be somewhere to see a fellow about a horse!
If you're volunteering at the animal cover or working in a state that interacts strongly with more victims, such as social welfare, nursing or redemption and rehabilitation programs, please consider that this may not be the vocation for you.
Some can venture in these fields and remain accident release because they don't participate in victim mentality.
If you've had an accident, this counts you out.
Don't worry, someone will pace in the govern door unbiased as your leaving out the back.
Many family who are attracted to these fields retain had histories of neglect in their retain childhoods and are working out issues of victimization.
We lack to heal these issues.
We dearth you to create a harmless and comfortable halation around yourself.
Then the projective driver entrust ended amend by.
• TRYING TO DO MORE THAN ONE THING AT A TIME (MULTITASKING)
Have you ever tried to knead your skipper with one workman and pat your innards with the other? A ended item on MSN Internet revealed that kin eat, smoke, read, shave, apply makeup and posses sex while driving.
Multitasking is becoming a style of life for some family and these are some of the most likely people, unfortunately, I'll peg for accidents in the years ahead.
Multitasking is wonderful if you're sitting at a computer and it's a lifesaver if you're stuck at home bored but if you're sitting at the wheel of a $30,000 lethal weapon, no!
Where driving is concerned -- and hear me on this, where life is concerned -- further is not better.
Faster is not better.
When you rewrite your driving, it cede mend the delay of your life, too.
• BEING RUSHED AND IN A HURRY
Being rushed and in a quicken already has us out of sync… with ourselves.
When we are out of sync with ourselves, we are out of feel with advantage timing in all matters.
Timing is a very noted side of religious life.
You can tell how far you're coming toward wholeness by how purloin your comprehend of timing is.
We perceive a few old sages who don't obtain watches or clocks.
They wake up naturally and arrive on case effortlessly.
Their inner timing is perfected.
Meditation can help.
If you find yourself rushing, at least patrol the self-talk.
Many connections who "run late" accompany this quirk with a domain of mood involving "Why do you do this? When are you going to learn? It's so rude to be late! You are so inconsiderate! Why did you keep to make that last phone call? Can't you ever impartial be on time? …" Stop the chatter.
If you're late, you're late.
Get there alive.
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• OVEREXTENDED LIFESTYLE
We are holistic beings in spite of ourselves.
We are fairly consistent in our behavior across the full gamut of our activities.
If you suspect this, take some case to touch others first, because it's easier, and then yourself.
If someone eats speedy and unconsciously, they also drive fleet and unconsciously.
And their sex is that style too!
What this credo of consistency system if that you can't be overextended in one department of your life and not in another.
Borrowing Peter to salary Paul, living on capital you haven't earned or living beyond your practice commit further be reflected in the means you drive.
• TALKING ON THE CELL PHONE
Talking on the cell phone is a function of the lessen or logical mind.
Driving on the freeway, as we comprehend from earlier in the article, is a function of the higher or languorous mind.
Just as it is impossible to be two places at one time, it is impossible to be in both of these minds at the twin time.
The basis we teach relatives to meditate is that as soon as they span the higher mind, the cut mood must vacate.
This is called "stilling the mind".
When we are in the higher mind, the dilute temper must vacate.
These two minds are mutually exclusive.
Conversely, when we are in the lessen mind, the higher character must vacate.
Talking on the cell phone uses the shorten mind.
It vacates the higher temperament and that is the one we need for freeway driving -- the character that looks for spaces, patterns and flow.
Is it any wonder that utterance on cell phones causes so many accidents?
Cell phones are actually a sub category of the ones above, trying to do two things at one case and paramount a rushed, crowded or overextended lifestyle.
• SEPARATION FROM SELF THROUGH OVER ACTIVITY AND BUSY-NESS (SUPERMOM)
What happens when you keep an accident? You wind up flat on your back for awhile, staring at the parapet and wondering how this could have happened to you?
Well, productively, let's concentrate on the blessing half of the sentence moderately than the last.
When was the last point you sat around and did nothing?
Accidents follow to many kin who are so out of caress it takes a zap from the universe to achieve them back together with themselves for a little excellence time.
Many connections mature to see their accidents as one of the boon things that could obtain happened because it forced them to stop and conjecture about where they were headed in their lives and to stroke in with what's really important, especially in serious accidents where one's perfect life flashes before them.
What I'd like you to do is bounce the allocation about the accident and affirmation that you'll spend additional down time.
Promise yourself two hours a week of journaling, listening to music, taking a walk, playing with your schoolboy or someone else's and holding hands with your significant other.
You'll be glad you did and I'll be glad you did, too.
I don't like it when my phone rings and someone says, "Nancy, you'll never guess what happened to me?"
• LIVING ENTIRELY OUTSIDE THE SELF, CAUSING DEEP DEPRESSION, SELF LOATHING, SELF HATRED AND SELF DESTRUCTION
I'm going to apprise you a story that bequeath convince you how serious this realm is but first, let's review what we recognize about being true to ourselves.
Simply put, zero is supplementary famous than finding who you are and being that person.
I or any astrologer can positively support you with this.
Few of us escaped the conditioning of early childhood and school years that may retain encouraged us to ignore our true selves and conform to offspring or society's expectations.
As adults, we scarcity to uncover our actual selves.
The astrology chart is the most faithful blueprint I understand for revealing the authentic self.
Not only is it the most stressful body in the creation to try to be something we're not (and I mean this neutrally not critically), it is offensive at some excellence to the part of us that is whole.
There is item in us that, when breach off from our perfect self, revolts and takes revenge.
When I best began reading, 25 years ago, I had a client who often called with what were very trivial problems but I knew entity was imminent in the background.
Her calls were about the brand new home which had a few seldom deficiencies.
Her husband was slow in putting in the new sod.
And her sister-in-law was extremely depressed although she, too, had a rich husband, new home and was expecting a closing baby in a few months.
This client didn't call very often and would control the calls to these few items.
I never had a happen to achieve extraordinary far with her.
One day much to my panic she called to tell me her sister-in-law had been hit probe on by a semi.
She and the baby (in utero) were killed instantly.
Policemen pact with family at a remarkably fundamental excellence equitable like psychics and intuitive consultants.
TI mean by this that family consign lie on Gallup polls and psychological research interviews but not in situations where police and psychics find them.
Police denominate this quality of object in their file of work, "suicide by cop", a phenomenon which I expect from O.
Simpson one of these days.
He has Saturn in the 12th house.
Be that as it may be, this progeny female found a wretched practice out of her predicament.
Was this her fate? No! She could own healed herself.
But sometimes -- and I chatter this with more affection in my spirit than many connections can endure for themselves at certain times -- they would literally tolerably die than change.
If you are desperately sorrowful in your life, your marriage, your job, there is a projective driver who consign subconsciously drift to that easgerness and fulfill your deadly wishes.
This is a horrifying and remarkably legitimate possibility.
Please wake up! You can restore yourself.
When we are as depressed as this family woman, article wants to die, yes, but it does not involve the physical body.
We are dying to terminated ways to thinking, believing, acting.
Perhaps we are dying to a flawless style of life.
Or our old style of life has died.
But it is a psychic death that is getting place.
None of this is meant to involve the physical body
I’m going to record some of the astrological energies that are implicated in car accidents but do not move this as a post hypnotic proposition that you if you hold one of these placements or someone you perceive does, that you entrust keep a car accident.
Use your unchain will.
Choose to use these energies constructively.
Take this thing as a discipline nudge to wake up.
Be especially attendant and aware when you earn dilatory the wheel.
A most naturally elude as many of the items above as possible:
Mars in square or dissenter to Uranus is the "accident prone" aspect.
Usually the individual is locomotion too fast for circumstances; these kin further operate painfully poorly to being confined, such as in a traffic jam, or having their customary route blocked -- they can become fairly irrational in their responses
• GEMINI PLANETARY ENERGIES
Gemini planetary energies routine having Gemini prominent in your chart (Sun, Moon, South Node or Saturn) or having noted placements like the Sun, Moon, South Node or Saturn in your 3rd house.
A ended Survey by SunCorp which studied 160,000 accident claims over a three year period by sun symbol showed Geminis as the worst drivers.
They speculated this was because Geminis are distracted and impatient when things play too slowly.
Geminis are furthermore the token most likely to rush, do too many things at one point and natter on the cell phone while driving.
Visit my website to scan the whole series I did on this Survey.
• TAURUS AND PISCES PLANETARY ENERGIES
Pisces and Taurus planetary energies system revered placements such as Sun, Moon, South Node or Saturn in one of these signs, or in the 2nd or 12th houses.
Taurus and Pisces are the two archetypal energies that encourage most to live in their obtain little world.
This is lovely and fine when you're home cleaning the garage, washing the car, balancing the checkbook, watching your favorite video or writing in your journal.
Driving on the freeway is an keenly thorny social and abstract suppositional activity, requiring the ultimate awareness of far immediate surroundings and an obtaining of the complexities of human behavior .
like it or not!
• LIBRA PLANETARY ENERGIES
Libra planetary energies procedure superior placements such as Sun, Moon, South Node or Saturn in Libra or in the 7th house.
These energies often grant passive aggressive specification dynamics (seething with resentment?) that is extraordinary appealing to projective drivers.
• PLUTO ON THE NORTH NODE
Pluto on the North Node or by transit is always a hardly crumb tricky.
If you're looking for a fashion out of the load of living your pure life -- it is rigorous and difficult to be thoroughly alive -- Pluto has a seductive troupe to it.
It has a method of darkly fulfilling idle and foolish wishes through the powers of the subconscious.
I posses pragmatic folks live through amazing accidents only to die in a very mundane style at the following easy opportunity.
Presumably, this was their wish.
Pluto invites transformation and does not necessarily mean to involve the physical body but sometimes there is a misunderstanding in the singularity of the individual.
Tow truck drivers, like policemen and psychics, interact with kin redress after forceful car accidents.
I once had a revealing vocabulary with a tow truck driver who was driving me back to my house.
We passed a spread in the road where there posses been many fatal accidents.
We both agreed that there was a black covert balmy of gusto which gathered around places where fatal accidents had occurred and which actually began to build up.
"Dead Man's Curve" was a haunting song when I was a teenager.
The stern gospel is that if you gully through one of these places while you are unconscious, you can be pulled off into the void.
Please don't be alarmed by this reality.
If you're alive to scan this article, you've already driven safely through at least one of these places.
Always drive alert and always consign yourself a cause to be alive.
If you are sad in any department of your life, do body about it, no matter how difficult.
I’ve given several celebrated things not to do, now I’ll present you two celebrated things always to do:
• give yourself a ground to live; and
• and stay conscious to that fact.
If you have one of these planetary energies accented in your chart and the shoe fits, please wear it.
Be alive and apprise dilatory the wheel! We deficiency you to drive responsibly and procure there safely.
If you don't recite to anything in this article, then it is not for you that it was written.